This is #1 for a reason. I had my Life he had his own, all good. I understand it to a Point. He has this Sunshine Smile, this happy Puppy Look. Is this a characteristic or is he playing games with me :(. We had plans to hang out but on the day of he bailed on me and hurt my feelings in doing so. I'm not guaranteeing it will change, though. Now he says he loves me but it's not the same as it was. The Bug told me he is playing Music at some Bar so he invited me to come visit. Most of time we have different opinion. The guy I like is a Scorpio. I just concluded that a woman has far too much control over my emotions. our conversation was okay and we decided to meet up after i finished my final examination. I cry a lot, he knows but i won't show him my Tears. Scorpio in love is intense, loving, and enveloping. male scorps). how dos one know if he is really interested in you.. he barely talks, I am from United Kingdom England, I just want to share my experience with the world on how Dr Mack, help me, and got my love back and saved my marriage I was married for 3 years with a child and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and argued almost every time it got worse at a point that he filed for divorce I tried my best to make him change his mind & stay with me because I love him so much and dont want to lose him but everything just didn't work out he moved out of the house because it was a rented apartment and still went ahead to file for divorce I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. i have fallen deeply in love with this man who has now, after 3 and a half months (yes I know it is a short time) not introduced me to anyone, never invited me over to his house, starting being busy over weekends with family issues only pops over 1 night in the week for the last 3 weeks. I've recently broken up with a Scorpion man. Finish that house project you've been putting off, take yourself on a museum date, or enjoy a nice long walk. Instead of. He doesn't reach out and he doesn't reply when you contact him. I cant figure out whats going on. I have known him fr 8 years Best friends that tend to flirt a lot. They want you to pour out your heart and you literally have to pry things out of them. Part of me was over the moon with joy, but another part of me wanted to yell at him! we count on a lot of texts and phone calls to keep the relationship going. To be honest, I struggle with my inner feelings and thoughts regularly and, struggle to come to terms with them let alone trying to explain them. The Scorpio man is perfect in every way. I know he loves me and he had showed me and he had told me he's serious about me so I dont have doubt about it. Even i cant meet any boy (friend) without his permission. I had the same issue with a scorpio we met 1 year ago this month.everything was fine then he stopped calling and responding to me..this went on for 8 months then he texts me out if the blue. To all scorpio man out there, could you please explain why is it really hard for you to express your feelings with the one whom you feel somewhat special to you? I lost my mind. Very strange behavior from a man in his 40's. We did, 10 days after she left and it was like we had known each other for years. Also of pushing someone away as fear rejection so will self sabotage in order to control outcome, which sadly always ends in pain. while he's missing in action, i found another guy online and this guy is just a year older(gemini). we met online and been seeing each other for a month already. 1. He seldom wallows in envy or self-pity, and he doesn't happen to think that life owes him a single farthing. Some people may take that as being taken for granted, but I guess all I can say is, if that bothers you, talk about it. He is pure magnificence. They are a little different . They tell it all on a website or brood about it. Just tell him what he has done wrong and you don't want to keep silent with him because of it. Take The Quiz: Is He Losing Interest? I have since been on a roller coaster ride and now haven't gotten a text or call for 6 weeks. Yes we take our time doesn't mean we don't care we just need assurance that we won't expose ourselves for being hurt in return. He doesn't want to work on your relationship - he wants an excuse to end it. @Sho - their is no possible chance of getting him back. They are afraid of getting hurt by others, so they keep their thoughts and feelings private most of the time. My dad, brother and ldr bf are all scorps and my bf is triple scorp and I can tell u this is absolutely true for these guys! Should i stay or should i go. I really think it's the arrogance and a Scorpio. Very true. Mostly because they're afrai he is soo sweet, and caring and loving and our sex is always great. Is this how Scorpio men behave? An Aquarius man can be very charming, but don't be fooled by his act. Scorpio friend who ended up kissing me one night, has been gone for 2 weeks. They are not brave or fearless in some areas such as walking away from someone who adores them. 4 Water Signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces): Very In Touch With Their Emotions, It Will Be Obvious When He's Not Interested. Nasty comments like " my family comes first " " I can't be with you as I have people around me ". Though last week I text him about a minor accident he was very concerned . he's working, he is charming but he talk only about sex. This Scorpio guy made me feel secure as every time I asked him something out of my curiosity (resulting from my insecure), he always gives that clear answer. I believe if you are confident in yourself and understand when a Scorpio needs space to give it to them and be there for them when they return then things should be ok. I told him many times I wasn't a good communicator but he said that's okay. It shows his deep love . He has difficulty maintaining relationships, and eventually, ghosting is the only recourse he can think of to keep the space needed for himself. I should have given up but I still hope because I felt his love for me in his eyes. I will say he has the best heart and loves with all of it. :). he ask my fav music, random question like kiss ot hug? It makes them feel like they are not important enough to hear what you have to say about how you feel. When he's sad, he often feels deeply and intensely. Such an amazing man and my rock! help, This does help about Scorpios!! Scorpio men are born between October 23 and November 21. Both times we have broken up it was under false pretenses. Avoiding eye contact. When a Scorpio feels something, their feelings Run deep and it seems really difficult for them to open up at first. I've tried to end it with him, but he doesn't want to let me go. I know he read some of my emails because one of the emails I was asking him to send me my stuff from his place and I got a message from FedEx that he sent my stuff. But, he will suddenly disappear for a few days. If he is a fit for you, your Scorpio will be upset that you are upset. I would argue the opposite. We both have kids. We were fine I thought then suddenly he just stopped calling and he usually calls me everyday. Scorpios usually act like this because they're super sensitive and afraid of getting hurt. While your crush might be a Scorpio sun, his personality might be influenced by his rising, moon, and Venus signs as well. I also think it's easy to fall for them - at least in my case!!! What it takes to keep a Scorpio man interested largely depends on where he's at in development as an individual. Wish we will be together soon. The clip begins with the man dressed in all-black attire and dancing to the song with his expressions on point. Piscean men don't like to end relationships and will simply disappear, whether completely or in part. If he's pointing fingers for every problem that crops up in your relationship, he's trying to put the responsibility on you so he doesn't have to take accountability himself. If he tells you he likes or lives you and then disappears, find someone else! The more clingy and desperate you act, the more likely you are to pull yourself . And then. I've dated other Scorpios before and they were all super cool in the beginning and then they became mean afterwards so it wasn't hard for me to let go of them. Hes naturally secretive and very vindictive, dont stand for it and don't miss out waiting on him. Scorpios are driven to action by their ruling planets, Mars and Pluto. I told him I didnt know because he hurt my feelings and I felt like he was playing games with me. I said in my emails that I know he loves me too and that he broke up with me out of anger and he should think about it and let me know, but I havent heard from him yet. Instant connection, we see each other daily, even talk about our future. He is royally pissed off, and instead of lashing out, he has decided to spare you his vindictive tongue. For the second time now he is giving me the silent treatment. Both times i had to hear from him via email that its over. With Mom's encouragement, we decided to meet in April 2014. Sorry to be so gruesome but if you cannot handle the heat stay out of the kitchen. violeta_oliveira@yahoo.com.br on December 28, 2016: Hey! Right now he hasn't responded three days so kind of concerned. At the very least, he will reassure you that you are not the problem. Recently at work, a scorpio girl was chatting me up. No hidden but an honest clear answer and I like this very much. Scorpio Detests Lying If you lie to your Scorpio lover, he will know it. Hidden in the tiring and mundane is a chance to transform your prospects in a delightful way. Image: SANAI 2 base museum in Antarctica. THE MAKEUP THOUSAND-MAN CUT!A GREAT CRISIS!LINK YOUR HEART AND TURN EVERYTHING . Take a look into his full natal chart to gain a more accurate understanding. He keeps an eye on you in a caring and protective way Have you noticed your Scorpio man secretly glancing over at you or his glances drifting across the office looking for you? My boyfriend is a scorpio and I'm libra. I honestly thought he was ghosting me. well he did the withdraw thing to me.. but he told me after I sent him a message.. that everything is fine. It's where you go out and enjoy yourself. We flirt constantly , talk about crazy things and have fun. It really does sux when you get stung for something so stupid and especially when you've done nothing wrong apart from be asleep.it's extremely hurtful. Hopefully you've been having a fine old time lately. It tells me that he thinks the relationship is strong enough that he doesn't have to worry about putting on a show and being talkative every day. Remember, your partner's sun sign is never an excuse for abusive behavior. In other words, if you can't tell which of the first four reasons is the reason he has withdrawn, then you really don't know each other well enough for him to play mind games and expect you to sort it out. When he gets offended, he will try to go about his usual routine in silence as a coping mechanism. I have never cared or missed or loved anyone the way I do him. The Band was on Break in the Back, i was not looking for him, was sitting at the Bar talking with the Bartender etc, having a good Time. So we've been checking our snapchat stories which he only posted two and so did I. I feel like my situation is probably number 5 but sometimes I get a feeling he will try to contact me one day idk. What do you guys think??? I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news Just thought I should share my experience because I strongly believe someone out there needs it You can email him through his email..dr_mack@ yahoo. We're both show offs that work for each others attention, but sometimes he doesn't even acknowledge me. Lying, gaslighting, disappearing acts/avoiding for days on end, and emotionally irresponsible- denying fault or acting unaware of their actions- refusing to talk things out, is just not worth it. Me and Scorpio make broke up after being together for 2 years. so, i tried and most of our convrsation will go down to sex. Speaking for myself, it's more of an arcing effect. He finally said "LEAVE ME ALONE, I DID THIS EASY AND CLEAN" Stop calling stop texting. He is very supportive and lovable and caring too. If a Scorpio man suddenly disappears with no explanation, he could just not be interested in you. They have to prove to me and show me that they are who they say they are. Im totally confused coz he's giving me mixed signals. Scorpio Signs yes he has the most of them. Help!! Is this the end? They rarely pretend and are very bad at telling lies (and hate when others do so). Have a Beautiful Daughter to the last of the 3 Loves. They will want to think things over before making a decision. Eyes are the windows to the soul and can tell so much about a person - especially if that person is a Scorpio! I went crazy over him, and he seemed to go crazy over me too, and even wanted to make plans for the next meetup before even leaving each other. We just dating, taking it slow. This might be caused by problems early on in their lives that have made them insecure about being committed to someone who might not reciprocate. Why would you wait around for this unstable twit to decide how he's going to yo yo again and how long you'll take it? The difference with Scorpio compared . I can see he has read my message as well. The are great mind readers some might say. I can't say anything to him. Yes, a scorpio man is a one task at a time individual, so say that they have alot of things to accomplish in such a short period of time or they feel overwhelmed they tend to withdrawal a bit and it really takes a women whom is strong and can handle finding things to do on your own. I'm very hurt and miss him so much! HubPages is a registered trademark of The Arena Platform, Inc. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. Then when they already knew it's sign of love, they trick their mind assuming the object isn't feel the same, again, to avoid disappointment. Thank you. The reason is because he expects those to understand for his behavior. After reading all the thread and many many others more I realized he is just like whatever you guys had described. Their element is water, meaning they navigate the world through their emotions. Both of which he said no to. Angel Ward from Galveston, TX on July 25, 2012: I agree 1000% And the comment with a scorp's mom in the hospital, there is always some drama going on, that's a great excuse for withdrawal, to distract the sig. I didn't take him serious. Unfortunately, this guy tends to throw his anger onto the people he loves most. You are theirs alone and nobody else's therefore, you can only share your personal feelings or opinions with him. hopefully this is helpful :) I'm thinking about writing one on the ego of scorpio males ;) ( and females!). will ask you 100 personal questions but won't tell you much about themselves, can rev from 0 to 100 in a matter of seconds but may let off the gas just as fast (they will likely be the one to determine the speed of a new relationship), when they finally find "The One", they love them with every fiber of their being, can hold a grudge for years but is also capable of deep healing work, tender forgiveness, and bringing dark wounds to the light, will take the time to understand their partner to their core and nurture them accordingly, wants it their way and has a hard time compromising, ignites the spark of a twin flame relationship you'll never forget, although they might instigate many fights within the relationship, they will also fight for the relationship when it needs saving. A month or so before meeting, he opened up a lot about his personal life to me, and it felt like I was finally getting to know him as a person. Sometime i feel not to have a same sign mate. I am the type that gets smothered when a guy is constantly blowing the messages up or calling. So when he is thinking about you, it is all about you. But my question is will he come back to me? I really dont know who the ideal sign for a Scorpio is, Well Said.a typical scorpio behavior. This is the only way to defend himself or apologize. I want to add he is younger than me in 6 years, he is 29. My point is, you may think it came out of nowhere, but he has been keeping track, and something tipped the scales. The drop off in feelings are generally never as sudden as you think, unless there's a serious betrayal. I have a Scorpio issue for sure. I have a way with words as being a Gemini and I am willing to sacrifice some of my freedom to be with this Scorpio. Scorpio Man's Personality and Your Relationship Being with a Scorpio man is as much about loving him as it is about loving yourself. When they get into something, they really go for it. It will only tell this Scorpio man or woman that you are too close, to begin with. Of course the purpose of being happy as well as having fun is to let him notice. They wait until they feel they have sufficient justification and then lash out. And our conversation end with quarrel. How much i showed my love to him , he got more silence . I have a huge problem I was dating my best friend who is a Scorpio and he was such an amazing man. Girls, start dating around casually, see what else is out there besides him. They feel everything! I live in Wisconsin. I've been dating a new Scorpio for 3 months now that I fell in love with almost right away. There is very little I expect and very little that fazes me but the moment I get the whiff of disloyalty I will stake out my game and take him down he will never come up. Every day & night he would text me or calling and today nothing. While others are mumbling and crumbling and grumbling, he is at his forceful, courageous best. Have some self respect and dump these crazy scorpio loser dudes who have self centered ness as their #1 ! He is in a situation that he has mixed emotions about and is acting distant until he sorts it out in his heart. I told him i just wanted to hang out with him like we agreed and I felt like he was being immature. how is the best way to respond to text or call after they have been distancing themselves and a little cold. He also had an additive personality. They hone in on a project and become very obsessed. He can't expect you to read his mind, but here's what he might be feelingand likely has been feeling for quite some time. But after a while i realized he loves me , cares about me , listens to me , & my words had lots of effect on him ! He's angry. In my opinion, we Scorpios take offhanded comments a bit too personally. He did not talk to me at all . A few times over the following three weeks, I came close to contacting him. he disappeared but after some time he texted me saying 'I'm sorting my thoughts out because this feels brutal and chaotic' which sounded so childish to me. I am always in doubt about our relationship longevity. If you aren't sure about him, don't put up with his games. The messages he sent me were slaughtering and he even threatened to put our rude conversations all over Facebook. Anyway, before he explained why he didnt want to come to Christmas with me he just said (I like to stay in and do nothing) like I said my feelings got hurt and I was quiet maybe even a bit distant and cold. But when they do finally lash out, they do so in brilliant form. Discern your partner based on their true character, and let astrology be secondary to your gut instinct! Prove you are serious about it by talking about long-term plans. He needs his Space, alone Time ,escape into his Music after having Stress Times. "Not only him, most of the Indians don't take tip for doing such thing, in fact we don't feel it's so big help, we grow up with . First time he gave me the silent treatment I was a bit agitated with him because he kept calling me difficult and I got pissed and told him something mean like 'you better go back online and find an easy-going girl who had an easy life'. They are wonderful though, no doubt about it. A few years later, you accidentally step on the dog's tail. What to do when Scorpio man ignores you? I'm going through the same crap. But if he is unhappy for any reason no matter how minute, he will withdraw and cheat on you--this is the stinger part. I just don't have time to waste. He has dropped off the face of the earth but yet when I do see him for a few minutes , he is great! I met my Scorpio man in an online dating site on three weeks later and we fell in love within a few weeks into 2014. We have had periods of intense sexual conversation and then we lose contact for weeks to months, then one of us will reappear. We have both been under work stress. But I seriously think I am pregnant and am freaking out. Oh no, this vacation will be somewhere in the mountains where there'll be many hiking trails and places to rest in nature. He may not be saying much, but I guarantee he is listening. Awesome! But things are slowy getting boring for me. I felt really shitty after reading his long descriptive text. From my experience (both as a Scorpio and as someone who has dated several Scorpio men), I'm going to explain their peculiar behavior as best as I can. Their understanding of others is deep and incisive. He is working independently, so he is working lots, busy with his Music Needs and is living one Hour away from me, living with somebody together. We stayed in Contact for the next 3 Years. A scorpio man is something else. & i saw him posts in other social app . I am the kind of Libra female who craves attention and if I don't hear from my Scorpio for ONE day - I begin to freak out and go back and forth - he loves me, he loves me not. 5 Key Takeaways 1. Suddenly it seems like he can't talk to me Like he's not allowed. He is not interested in a serious relationship and will only stay with you as long as it benefits him. He just needs more time , to make a palace for future . I hope this advice helps. He Keeps Secrets From You Scorpios are secretive. He can be so intense with his feelings; but he does have moments when he is withdrawn, and it makes me feel like he is not interested. But it was important for me to tell him that I regret what I said. 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